SAKINAH DI ERA MODERN: INTEGRASI PERSPEKTIF ISLAM DAN PSIKOLOGI DALAM RELASI PASUTRI
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Family Psychology, Family Resilience, Husband-Wife Relationship, Islamic Marriage, Modern Family Dynamics.
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Marriage in the modern era faces complex challenges, ranging from shifts in gender roles to psychological pressure resulting from digitalization. This study aims to examine the concept of marriage in Islam as a psychological and spiritual institution, as well as to analyze how the integration of Islamic values and family psychology approaches can build healthy husband-wife relationships. The research method used is qualitative with a library research type through an integrative approach that connects normative-religious literature with family psychology theories. The results of the study show that the concepts of sakinah, mawaddah, and rahmah in Islam directly intersect with emotional well-being and interaction stability in family psychology. This integration positions the principle of musyawarah (consultation) as a form of assertive communication and the principle of ishlâh (reconciliation) as a collaborative conflict resolution strategy. These findings conclude that combining the spiritual dimension, involving worship and ethical awareness, with the psychological dimension, such as attachment and emotional regulation, is able to strengthen family resilience in facing the challenges of individualistic modern society.
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Adib, M., dkk. (2024). Tukar peran suami dan istri dalam rumah tangga perspektif hukum keluarga dan gender. Journal of Islamic and Law Studies, 8(1), 101–102.
Agustina, A. P. (2023). Perubahan pola komunikasi keluarga di era digital. Global Komunika, 6(2), 78.
Ahyani, H. (2025). Membunyikan syariah: Pendekatan fikih keluarga dan ekonomi menuju kesejahteraan sosial. Widina Media Utama.
Alamsyah, A. A., dkk. (2025). Hadis sebagai lensa kritis: Menyingkap realitas sosial kontemporer di Indonesia. Academia Publication.
Ali, M. (1984). Hukum perkawinan Islam (Cet. ke-3). BPFE.
Ayuningtiyas, S., dkk. (2025). The construction of the concept of a sakinah family from the perspective of Maqāṣid al-Sharī‘ah by Jasser Auda and its relevance to Islamic family law. TOFEDU: The Future of Education Journal, 4(3), 776–784.
Beddu, M. J., dkk. (2023). Pernikahan Islami di era modern: Antara tradisi dan adaptasi. Jurnal Addayyan, 18(2).
Cox, F. D., & Demmitt, K. (2014). Human intimacy: Marriage, the family and its meaning (11th ed.). Wadsworth Cengage Learning.
Goode, W. J. (2004). Sosiologi keluarga. Bumi Aksara.
Gusdur, Saifullah, & Ilahi, A. F. (2025). Kedewasaan pernikahan dalam rumah tangga perspektif agama, hukum dan psikologi. Konseling At-Tawazun: Jurnal Kajian Bimbingan dan Konseling Islam, 4(1), 1–12.
Hermanto, A., & Yuhani’ah, R. (2024). Psikologi keluarga dan perkawinan. PT Literasi Nusantara Abadi Grup.
Indrawati, E. S., & Fauziah, N. (2012). Attachment dan penyesuaian diri dalam perkawinan. Jurnal Psikologi Undip, 11(1), 42.
Jafar, E. S., & Mustainah, A. R. (2022). Concept of ideal marriage in early adults. Almaiyyah: Media Transformasi Gender dalam Paradigma Sosial Keagamaan, 15(2), 149–161.
Khairuddin. (2025). Pernikahan dalam Islam dan relevansinya dengan regulasi hukum keluarga kontemporer. Insight: Indonesian Journal of Social, Humanity, and Education, 1(2).
Malisi, A. S. (2022). Pernikahan dalam Islam. SEIKAT: Jurnal Ilmu Sosial, Politik dan Hukum.
Marcelina, L., Erita, Y., & Fitria, Y. (2023). Pembelajaran tematik terpadu model integrated di sekolah dasar. Pendas: Jurnal Ilmiah Pendidikan Dasar, 8(3), 1–13.
Mufidah. (2014). Psikologi keluarga Islam berwawasan gender. UIN-Maliki Press.
Nugraha, R. A., dkk. (2025). Psikologi keluarga. Eureka Media Aksara.
Sari, M. (2025). Hubungan empati dan keterbukaan diri dengan keharmonisan rumah tangga dalam perspektif Islam. Journal of Innovative and Creativity.
Sarjono, D. D. (2008). Panduan penulisan skripsi. Jurusan Pendidikan Agama Islam.
Sholihah, C. (2020). Hukum perkawinan dalam teori dan perkembangan. Zahir Publishing.
Siregar, A. B. (2023). Hukum keluarga: Tantangan dan perubahan dalam dinamika keluarga modern. Tugas Mahasiswa Hukum, 1(1), 4.
Usman, M. (2024). Sosiologi keluarga. Nasmedia.
Wasik, A. (2015). Fiqih keluarga: Antara konsep dan realitas. Deepublish.
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Abstract
Marriage in the modern era faces complex challenges, ranging from shifts in gender roles to psychological pressure resulting from digitalization. This study aims to examine the concept of marriage in Islam as a psychological and spiritual institution, as well as to analyze how the integration of Islamic values and family psychology approaches can build healthy husband-wife relationships. The research method used is qualitative with a library research type through an integrative approach that connects normative-religious literature with family psychology theories. The results of the study show that the concepts of sakinah, mawaddah, and rahmah in Islam directly intersect with emotional well-being and interaction stability in family psychology. This integration positions the principle of musyawarah (consultation) as a form of assertive communication and the principle of ishlâh (reconciliation) as a collaborative conflict resolution strategy. These findings conclude that combining the spiritual dimension, involving worship and ethical awareness, with the psychological dimension, such as attachment and emotional regulation, is able to strengthen family resilience in facing the challenges of individualistic modern society.
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References
Adib, M., dkk. (2024). Tukar peran suami dan istri dalam rumah tangga perspektif hukum keluarga dan gender. Journal of Islamic and Law Studies, 8(1), 101–102.
Agustina, A. P. (2023). Perubahan pola komunikasi keluarga di era digital. Global Komunika, 6(2), 78.
Ahyani, H. (2025). Membunyikan syariah: Pendekatan fikih keluarga dan ekonomi menuju kesejahteraan sosial. Widina Media Utama.
Alamsyah, A. A., dkk. (2025). Hadis sebagai lensa kritis: Menyingkap realitas sosial kontemporer di Indonesia. Academia Publication.
Ali, M. (1984). Hukum perkawinan Islam (Cet. ke-3). BPFE.
Ayuningtiyas, S., dkk. (2025). The construction of the concept of a sakinah family from the perspective of Maqāṣid al-Sharī‘ah by Jasser Auda and its relevance to Islamic family law. TOFEDU: The Future of Education Journal, 4(3), 776–784.
Beddu, M. J., dkk. (2023). Pernikahan Islami di era modern: Antara tradisi dan adaptasi. Jurnal Addayyan, 18(2).
Cox, F. D., & Demmitt, K. (2014). Human intimacy: Marriage, the family and its meaning (11th ed.). Wadsworth Cengage Learning.
Goode, W. J. (2004). Sosiologi keluarga. Bumi Aksara.
Gusdur, Saifullah, & Ilahi, A. F. (2025). Kedewasaan pernikahan dalam rumah tangga perspektif agama, hukum dan psikologi. Konseling At-Tawazun: Jurnal Kajian Bimbingan dan Konseling Islam, 4(1), 1–12.
Hermanto, A., & Yuhani’ah, R. (2024). Psikologi keluarga dan perkawinan. PT Literasi Nusantara Abadi Grup.
Indrawati, E. S., & Fauziah, N. (2012). Attachment dan penyesuaian diri dalam perkawinan. Jurnal Psikologi Undip, 11(1), 42.
Jafar, E. S., & Mustainah, A. R. (2022). Concept of ideal marriage in early adults. Almaiyyah: Media Transformasi Gender dalam Paradigma Sosial Keagamaan, 15(2), 149–161.
Khairuddin. (2025). Pernikahan dalam Islam dan relevansinya dengan regulasi hukum keluarga kontemporer. Insight: Indonesian Journal of Social, Humanity, and Education, 1(2).
Malisi, A. S. (2022). Pernikahan dalam Islam. SEIKAT: Jurnal Ilmu Sosial, Politik dan Hukum.
Marcelina, L., Erita, Y., & Fitria, Y. (2023). Pembelajaran tematik terpadu model integrated di sekolah dasar. Pendas: Jurnal Ilmiah Pendidikan Dasar, 8(3), 1–13.
Mufidah. (2014). Psikologi keluarga Islam berwawasan gender. UIN-Maliki Press.
Nugraha, R. A., dkk. (2025). Psikologi keluarga. Eureka Media Aksara.
Sari, M. (2025). Hubungan empati dan keterbukaan diri dengan keharmonisan rumah tangga dalam perspektif Islam. Journal of Innovative and Creativity.
Sarjono, D. D. (2008). Panduan penulisan skripsi. Jurusan Pendidikan Agama Islam.
Sholihah, C. (2020). Hukum perkawinan dalam teori dan perkembangan. Zahir Publishing.
Siregar, A. B. (2023). Hukum keluarga: Tantangan dan perubahan dalam dinamika keluarga modern. Tugas Mahasiswa Hukum, 1(1), 4.
Usman, M. (2024). Sosiologi keluarga. Nasmedia.
Wasik, A. (2015). Fiqih keluarga: Antara konsep dan realitas. Deepublish.